So I have been stumped on the dress. Honestly, I had been considering something close to my choir dress because it hangs on me in all the right places. But, recently I have seen this style that I think I would enjoy…. of course this is all if I can find one reasonably priced. I like having the 3/4 length sleeves and the lace is gorgeous. I would need to completely change my figure for this to work. The only thing I don’t enjoy is the plunging neckline…. which although my husband would enjoy for himself, he may not appreciate the other men enjoying. I love the waist/sash thingamajig.